pted. pletely opposite of that is anonymous sex, where the act has no love and is simply a method to achieve pleasure and possible asm.
Although my first “gay” experiences were anonymous sex, the moment I realized that the only gender with which I could form a meaningful intimate relationship was when I truly uood that I was gay. When that, “penny dropped,” it was crystal clear how I was different from the great majority of the people with whom I ied every day.
The proof of this has always been sex within prison or the military (although the military is far less true with sexual iion of the armed forces) between men. Deprived of their normal sexual outlets, men will seek sexual outlet with other men. This is not, “homosexual version,” as it was once discussed, but is nnized for what it is, simple seeking of an outlet for sexual release. Yes, this release seeking may lead a man, who never having been placed into the gender segregated situation would never have been introduced to this possibility, to find that they enjoy intimacy with another man and form a multi-dimension intimate affeal relationship with someone of the same gender.
So, the ses of entries I read where there is a descriptigestion that getting the straight guy sexually aroused (horny) is the first step in sedug him certainly fits with the realities of the cept of individuals who are aroused seeking sexual release with the available outlets at the time of arousal. And, I would suggest that the higher the level of arousal the better the ce of the need overwhelming any inhibitions of the aroused individual (hehe suggestion that use of inhibition l devices increasing the opportunity for success making a certain amount of sense).
The true test of all of this would be to take a self identified straight man, arouse him signifit, put him in a room with a male/female couple, where the man was gay, the woman straight and man far more attractive than the woman and see what happens. My