010 at 10:23 am
p.s. my father passed a number of years back. i suppose i was racked with guilt at the time. i felt there must have been someway i could have made things better between us, maybe i coulda tried harder or tried being a better son.
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Chuck Long says:
July 26, 2010 at 9:19 am
Read my article if you get a ce, “To Dah My Father Again.”
You are not alone.
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Chuck Long says:
July 24, 2010 at 2:38 pm
I have been very fortunate in my life to have male friendships which strengthened me and never left me lag. I seem to have a way with straight males that is both playful and built upon trust- (interpret this, It mealy as it reads).
Your desire for closeness with a male is real and not unusual. Society teaches males to keep their distahat’s why we are so fused. A relationship with a close friend or even an intimacy built upon trust is a beautiful thing, not to be denied.
It makes total seo he affe of a male regardless of your sexuality.Women have it and so should men.Don’t question your need but respond to it in a natural way.and don’t be repulsed by what might emerge as a sequence.If you’re a bi or straight man you have the right to feel this way.
Don’t break down sexuality into this type of vacuum.Let your feelings flow, even if unheard a silent, They are healthy and will support you in a life of happiness for years to e.
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btown1981 says:
August 2, 2010 at 4:50 am
I myself have had an experieh a ‘best friend’. Him(straight) and I(at the time curious but said I was straight) met about 6 years ago and from the mome we just clicked. I remember us just hangin out and drinkin everyday and we would finish each others sentences and we were the best of friends.
He was 19 at the time and I was 23 whe. He seemed very sihat he was straight aalked about girls and their ‘titties, pussy, etc.’ all the time. And had numerous short relation