together he’s grabbed my shoulder and turned me to him and just stared at me right in the eyes with a gleam in his smile…again, i kinda freak out cause i thought i was the gay one, not him! so i just shrug it off ahe subject.
he also mentions each time a gay dude tries to pick him up…almost randomly he’ll be like “yeah today, this guy tried to pick up and i was like “Nah man.” it’s happe least five times. i think it’s a tad…”queer.”
he claims he’s not gay. he surely gets with a lot of women (but i’m gay and i do too), he says it’s weird when he’s around gay guys cause he thinks they’re picturing him c…..
lately i’ve been fantasizing about this dude…so much i think about ag on it just seeing what the hell is up, but of course don’t want to mess up a friendship (personally i feel that if there’s any type of sexual attra, sex will make the friendship better…or at least more exg) with pervasive advances….so yes i’m reag out to you all.
thank you for your ents already. the insight is appreciated and i only hope i gain some more. :)
-t
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maybebi says:
February 15, 2011 at 11:30 pm
Sounds like he’s either really fortable with his sexuality, and yours… or he’s not sure which team he wants to bat for. (He knows yay, right?) Either way, it could be weird if you start ing onto him and he’s not into it after all. (I think maybe it’s easier for a straight guy to flirt with gay guys than for them to be flirted with… if they initiate, they’re “in trol” and they shut it down more easily if it goes too far.)
If you’re attracted to him, maybe there’s a mature level-headed way to let him know that. If you don’t put any pressure into it (“… so you gotta have sex with me, dude!”), sounds like he’s open-minded enough to at least be happy about the pliment. And then he definitely knows who he call if he ever does feel like experimenting.
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mike says:
March 2, 2011 at 9:58 am
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