a straight guy who gets aroused by pictures of the male body, and even fantasize about having sex with a man. What keeps me from going there is that I am not attracted to men in person at all. In fact, even a pic that includes a face is not so appealing, and the male bodies that turn me ohose without body hair (perhaps because they are more like women). I guess all that makes me “curious”, but only somewhat.
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Jazz says:
March 26, 2011 at 5:35 pm
Hey
I’m from the UK
I’ve been looking all over the i for someone who help me with my problem, then I found this.
Please help.
the problem:
I am in a b school, so there are dorms and such.
I met this guy when he joihe school about a year ago.
hes a tad older than me, Im 15, he’s 18…
he is my best friend. We share on is, music etd i think he cares about me, he is a genuinely nice guy, he is perfect.
I am in love with him.
I really really am, and I t imagine my life without him.
I know that sounds like a lot, but all I really want is one experience.
Im not “out” yet, although I expee people assume that I’m gay…
he is here for another year, and then he is gone…and i never want to lose him as a friend, but I feel that if I never get to be intimate with him, i will never be satisfied…and it’s so difficult.
what I do?
please help.
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maybebi says:
March 28, 2011 at 9:35 am
Hi, Jazz -
Ohing really jumped out at me from your ent ― you’re 15. Your whole future is filled with stuff you literally ’t imagi ― not because you’re stupid or anything, but just because life turns out to be so much more awesome and wonderful (and sometimes painful and sad) than we expect.
You really like this friend of yours, and that’s great. But he’s going to be gone from school in another year, and then what? It’ll be hard to say goodbye even if you’re still “just good frien