hings to him while he’s asleep. However, even though he is somewhat homophobic, he would never react that way. In fact, once we were awake in the bed, and my cat crawled up to it and lied down on his lap. We both started to pet him, and as I did that I felt his dick through his pants. I began to rub his distead of the cat, and tinued for about 5 minutes. He pretty much acted as if it wasn’t happening, even though he had the most massive boner ever, and we never discussed it afterward. I get mixed signals from him and I’m afraid to ever bring up my attra to him because I fear it will end the most wonderful friendship I’ve ever had. However, I feel that if I d it up and he does fess that he has feelings for me too, it could bee the most wonderful relationship of my life.
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maybebi says:
March 30, 2009 at 8:27 am
Ohing you don’t mention is how old you guys are. High school? College? 30?
You say you’re attracted to him; is that a romantid of attra? Purely physical? Really good friends (“with bes”) but not boyfriends?
There’s two possibilities ― either he’s got feelings for you, or he doesn’t. If he does, he may still not want to a them, because it’d mean aowledging those feelings. And as you’ve found out, that’s a scary place to be when you don’t generally feel “that way” for anuy. Or, maybe he just isn’t sure where it could lead. If he doesn’t feel the same about you as you do for him, theher he hasn’t figured out how to respond, or he’s just trying to give you a gentle brushoff (untrollable boners aside). Push him too far or too fast to respond, and fusion turn into anger ― at you. (Joe’s advice above sounds really good that way.) Maybe he does feel “that way” and in time he’ll be willing to a it… but how long have you been dealing with your feelings for him? Give him at least that long.
I’d suggest letting him make the “move”. You’ve shown that you’re okay with sharing a bed and even rubbing him like that. If he