g in. If they’re not attracted back, though, they should definitely not be leading you on by flirting like that. (And “toug”? That’s kind of a long way to go just to push yay buddy’s buttons.) I’d say it’s fair to let them know that you really don’t appreciate being made fun of like that ― they o either shut up or put up (out?).
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jona says:
May 27, 2008 at 5:04 am
Thanks “maybebi” for your ents on my questions. Its good there are forums like this one where some people make such ho and you could say professios to personal questions. Please keep it up. I would be very keen to put more questions to you.
In the part of the world where I live (Uganda and perhaps in other poor tries), homophobia is official policy. I think in such societies, relationships between gay and straight guys are even more difficult. Reading your ent, it appears you would expect me to be open about my sexuality to my straight friends (especially if I am attracted to them and they flirt with me). This would be the logical situation.
Unfortunately because of state saned homophobia, it always feels risky to e out even to your closest “straight” buddy. Most of my “straight” buddy’s would not know much about my sexuality. I put straight in quotes becoz here, it is actually difficult to know your friend’s sexual orientation. So we “know” everyone is straight until proven otherwise.
Being proven otherwise have deadly sequences. As a result, it is very difficult to meet anay person through ordinary living. You tend to meet them through the i. Personally I find myself more attracted to the people I meet in ordinary life probably because I act ordinary and would like my parto act ordinary.
This ag ordinary to some extent means ag straight. So by the time we are flirting, its almost like an experiment. You could end up in bed or no where. Even on bed, still you are not sure whether your friend is expeg anything (both of you finding the situation