buddy doesn’t read this!)
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Chuck Long says:
June 17, 2009 at 7:04 pm
Joe,
Sometimes males just he closeness of another male.Society has ditioned males in many cultures to resist that impulse of “affe” toward another male.
I’ve traveled extensively and the US is among those tries where male affe and friendships are subordio the i of females in every walk of life. We always i females into male enviros and situations.
That’s why males are so fused about basistincts. Your buddy may have deeper feelings, but I bet that he just longs for a ‘private type intimacy’ with you, where the two of you be yourselves. His ent about your sexual relationship going nowhere is nothing more than a defense meism.
I have been with many straight males. I still have sex with straight males. Males today, tend to be more open
than they were when I was growing up. That sort of statement usually preceded intimate relations( ie-sex). It’s just a cautionary move to satisfy his own inability to e to terms with the fact that he may end up having sex with you, bur doesn’t want you to think it’s a relationship thing.
My blog deals with the eroticism that exist in simple friendships-that extension of affe that so many guys would like but are fearful to extend.This is for all males-straight and gay. I grew up around mase straight guys so this is part of my upbringing.I had wonderful relations with straight males.
I love this blog, so I’ll probably be responding a lot. I be reached at if you have more questions, but please tio post your ents on this blog.I love reading them.
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Robert says:
November 23, 2008 at 11:49 pm
I am a siraight guy who is 61.
I would wele a sedu from a gay guy as long as I find some attra.
If I find him attractive and he flirts with me that would be a turn on.
I have had maionships with women and find women physically appealing. But I am tire