t this, or that I have feelings fuy…and that I don’t know what to do…
He has told me before that he wouldn’t be friend with a gay guy…ahough I’m not gay, but bi, I’m afraid that if he gets to know how I feel, our friendship is going to be ruined…
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Joe says:
February 13, 2009 at 9:10 am
Latinboy, I feel really badly for you, buddy. Sounds to me like you might be one of a rare breed — a true bisexual. As much as you obviously love this guy (and it’s clear that he loves you as well), I think from what you said that he’s never going to be the person you need him to be for you. He obviously has some homosexual feelings too; the thing is, he deals with them in a ive aive way — it’s a cer in him that he must not give in to, it’s something to be denied aually eradicated. Whereas Ynize your feelings toward him as a valid part of you, something you’re not ashamed of, even if it does make your life a living hell sometimes. You’re being ho with yourself and fag this head on. He’s doing the opposite. He’s not iionally playing head games with you to cause you any pain (and you know this); he’s just incapable of dealing with his attra to you. Sometimes this inability to deal with these feelings actually surfa the form of hostility toward the very person that they’re attracted to. And that, my friend, is no good at all for you. And remember that what you really o do here is watch out for yourself. You are too vulnerable to him now, it sounds like, and he’s just too uable.
This will be tough to hear but it will ultimately be best for you to put some serious distaween you two ahe bonds weaken. Luckily, college should do this for you.
I speak from experiey much all of the above.
I hope this helps, buddy, and good luck.
Joe
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ihbestfriend says:
March 28, 2009 at 11:46 pm
My situation with my best friend is similar to Latinboy’s in the sehat we always share a bed and I’ve done similar t