ihbestfriend says:
April 6, 2009 at 10:36 pm
Thank you very much for your advise. to answer your questions, we’re High School seniors, about to graduate ihan two months. And I’d have to say that my attra to him has both a romantid a sexual po. I don’t kly how a relationship between us would work out in terms of how our families and friends would take it, but I do know that I’d be willing to roll with the punches if he were ied.
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Uber says:
April 14, 2009 at 5:35 pm
Folks should remember that ‘Straight/Gay’ is not a binary ‘yes/no’ issue. It tends to be more of a gradation of orientations. Societal and cultural pressures tend to make guys who are more straight than gay, identify as straight and suppress any homosexual urges or curiosities. So that being said, there is no sedug a dude who is on the absolute far end of heterosexuality. Guys who are not pletely on the far end of hetero potentially be persuaded to ‘go there’. The real question however is ‘should you?’. I’ve seduced a buddy of mine who for all is and purposes came up as ‘straight’, in fact he’s married now to a lady. Prior to his marriage, he and I got together three times uhe pretext of: alcohol, ‘needing a place to stay for the night’, and f me after the death of a distaive (hey, I don’t want to be aloonight…). We had a really great time and he was very good at the things I showed him how to do. Lots of hot fun sex.
The downside however is that he got all anxious and shut down with me afterward and our friendship drifted. Irospect I think it was irresponsible of me to ‘seduce’ him instead of being more open and ho in my attra for him (this is partly the curse of being young and stupid). I actually think he was not just attracted to me but also ‘into’ me since we were very good friends as well, but didn’t deal with the ‘gay implications’ well and I really didn’t do much to help him there. I suspect he was more bisexual than first believed (even b