fusing just like you say in the above ent).
Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. Ofcourse, i feel frustrated to find that a person is willing to share my bed but nothing more. I would never share a bed with another young man (me and my friends are in the 20-3e) if I wasn’t physically in fact sexually attracted to them. I tend to explain this apparent y of my straight friends by the high levels of homophobia in our society sort of making it difficult for young people to even learn about homosexuality. I don’t know if this is a suffit explanation.
I wish I was free to discuss these issues directly with the very friends ed but I just don’t have the ce yet.
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maybebi says:
June 2, 2008 at 9:48 pm
Hi again Jona ― I hadn’t realized that you’re all playing “in the dark” about who might be ied in what. That would definitely make it tougher!!
If homosexuality is really so widely ned (by people, not just the gover), why are your friends all flirting with you? Do they flirt with each other? Maybe that’s one side effect of “of course none of us possibly be gay, because that would be illegal” — everyone feels free to “pretend”. Which mostly sucks fuys who are only pretending to pretend ― that is, who actually are gay, instead of just joking about it…. As fusing as that paragraph got, I imagine real life is worse!
When you and your friends (or just your friends, if you’re not into it) do sleep together ― how big a bed? is there casual tact? what kind of clothing? I’ve had friends (well, a very few) where sharing a bed would be no big deal as long as everyone’s got pants on, for instance.
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Akashi says:
September 4, 2008 at 12:59 pm
I had an experieh many Asian friends. Actually, Asians are much easier pared to Westerners. We start a friendship like brothers. We hold hands or put your hands on his shoulders wihtout being suspicious to be gay. Asian straingt guys sometimes hold anuy