am hoping that I will be spotted and seduced, pulled into something for which I am ripe for the pig.
That might sound cluelessly naive. Perhaps I’ve been a bisexual time bomb for years but simply never k. But I have opened a genie’s bottle. And there’s no going back. I hope that I find someone who gently el my aies and coach me into a healthy relationship. At my age, I feel the clock is running. Younger men have many more options and years of time to experiend grow. By trast, with each year, I bee less desirable.
I wele your thoughts and perspective. Thanks very much for your excellent postings here!
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Brad says:
October 30, 2009 at 3:34 am
Is he gay/bi/straight/curious ? And is it fio approach him without showing him my sexuality ?
We both are of 25 yrs. Both good looking a, educated guys. I met him in a coag class 2.5yrs ago. Sihen we are quite good friends. I have been physical with few gay men, but not with a girl yet, so am not sure of my sexuality, but for the time being I sider myself as gay. He had a girlfriend, but he never had sex with her(Due to different morals of society in our part of world). We talk ohing, chicks, sex, movies, fuc.
But he probably doubts that I am gay as he had said things like I should go & check out some guys, and on which “POLE” am sitting on… lol.. etce he even asked me (on phohat whether am gay, which I ignored, as if I didhat at all. Twice he has told me, on his own that he is of servative thinking and wants to have sex only with girls and not with me ( thru text msg).
We meet every sunday in his friends’ apartment for some studies, where we are alone and last Sunday while we were eating bananas, I said that these are of quite good taste and he said, that “Oh so you like BANANAS very much?” I again showed as if I did his meaning.
I dont know what to do. Am really attracted to him. But I dont want to lose him, as he is a very good guy & a good friend. Bu