November 3, 2009 at 9:39 pm
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Chuck Long says:
My dilemma would be “With the way guys are socialized to be hetero at an early age, I simply find it impossible to believe that if he has feelings for females, that he would a his feelings for males before intimacy with the female .Unless he is shy, or a solid introvert.
Sexuality be a pelx issue. My partner is definitely bi-sexual as haviogether fpr 21 years, I see him a his bi-sexuality often, such as stantly reading girlie rags and stantly watg straight porn as opposed to gay porn.
tle while drunk off our asses but he says he doesnt remember. I think ppl kno what they doihey drunk especially when the finish and they say dont tell no one. ahing how many straight dudes do u kno that show there gay friends pictures of their dicks in their cellphone.
Society alone would have ditioned him to have experiences with women at this stage. When younger, yes guys, often mess around with each other before having sex w/ females. Not at a later stage of maturity.
maybebi says:
Many men claim to be bisexual, and use it as a ruse to actually exist in a semi state of denial about being gay. In one of the previous posts, the guy says that he has not had the same experiences with women as what he dreams of with men.
February 24, 2011 at 10:40 am
I’m not judging bi
What’s your question? if he’s really straight or not? I’d kinda question it too, sounds like he’s very fortable ag sexually with you. But if he doesn’t want to identify as anything except straight, I’d just let him be about it. Maybe he’ll eventually identify as bi, maybe he’ll stop doing stuff with you (or other buds), maybe he’ll keep on as he is. You’re not necessarily going to do him or your friendship any favors by pushing him too hard to ge his label.
I have never met a true bisexual male whose introdu to intimacy, was first through a male, although it’s highly possible.
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